假设你的月收入只有2000元，你也可以过得很好。我帮你把钱分成五份。
第一份600元，第二份400元，第三份300元，第四份200元，第五份500元。
第一份，用来做生活费。这么少的生活费，每天只能够分到十几元。早餐一份煮米丝，一个鸡蛋，一杯豆浆。中餐一份快餐，一个水果。晚餐自己开个小灶，煮点饭，加俩菜，睡前一杯奶。这样一月的伙食大概是500-600。不过，如果你还年轻，身体暂时还没有太多问题，这样的食谱，够你数年内不会有健康问题。
第二份，用来交朋友，扩大你的人际圈。这就宽裕了。你的电话费可以用掉100元。每个月可以请客两次，每次150元。请谁呢？记\住，请比你有思想的人，比你更有钱的人，和你需要感激的人。 每个月，坚持请客，一年下来，你的朋友圈应该已经为你产生价值了，你的声望、影响力、附加价值正在提升，形象又好，又大方。
第三份，用来学习。每个月可以有50元—100元用来买书。钱不多，买的书就要认真阅读，学会学了就用的精神。每一本书，看完后，就把它变成自己的语言讲给别人听，与人分享可以提高你的信誉度，并且，提升亲和力。另外的200元存起来，每一年参加一次培训。从不间断。等收入高一些了，或者有额外的积蓄，就参加更高级的培训。参加好的培训，既可以免费结交志同道合的朋友，又可以学习平时难以领悟的道理。
第四份，用于旅游，一年奖励自己旅游至少一次。生命的成长来自不断地历练。参加那种自由行的旅游，住进青年旅社，地球其实并不大，每年都出门，几年下来，就可以把红旗插到地图上，许多美好的回忆，成为生命的动力，更加有热情和能量，去投入工作。 第五份，用来投资。先存起来，然后可以投资到股市里，也可以用来做进货的本钱，小本生意很安全，开一个淘宝网帐户，去批发点东西来卖，亏了反正也不多，赚呢，既赚了金钱，又赚了自信和胆量，还赚来做事情的阅历。赚的钱多了，就可以开始购买长期的投资计划，使自己提早获得一份长久的保障，保证自己和家人在将来，不论发生什么事情，都有一份充足的资金来照顾，生活品质不会下降。
好了，这样熬了一年，第二年如果你还在拿2000元的收入，那就是你的不是了，这么不长进，活着也够丢脸的，看看有什么品牌的豆腐比较硬，买一点来，用头去撞吧。 月收入在3000元以下的，一定要兼职赚钱，不要穷，还很有个性，挑三拣四的，这个不愿意做，那个没有兴趣。收入不高，一定要非常勤奋，尽量去找跟销售有关的工作，比如房地产中介，这就是很不错的兼职工作，既可以认识很多有价值的人，又可以锻炼自己的信息收集能力和营销技巧。 衣服啊，鞋子啊，这一年你是得尽量少买了。最好全部通过你的兼职赚的钱去买。当作奖励自己的一种方式。额外多赚钱的时候，记得买个礼物给你的爱人，谢谢他/她支持你的财务计划。很坦诚地告诉他/她，为何你那么勤俭，告诉他/她你的梦想和努力的方向。 到处都有需要帮助的生意人，兼职帮他们做点事情，去磨练自己的意志、口才、和工作能力吧，加上你的理财技巧，
第二年，你的收入至少要增加到5000元。最低也应该是3000元，否则你收入的成长还赶不上通货膨胀呢。 无论你的收入是多少，记得分成五份。增加对身体的投资，让身体始终好用，增加对社交的投资，扩大你的人脉，增加对学习的投资，加强你的自信，增加对旅游的投资，扩大你的见闻，增加对未来的投资，增加你的收益。 保持这种平衡，逐渐你就会开始有大量的盈余。这是一个良性循环的人生计划。身体将越来越好，得到更多的营养和照顾。朋友会越来越多，存储许多有价值的人脉关系，同时，你也有条件参加那些非常高端的培训，使自己各方面的羽翼丰满，思维宽阔，格局广大，性格和谐。而你，也就能够逐渐实现自己的各种梦想，购买自己的需要的房子、车子，并且给未来的孩子准备一笔充足的教育基金。
人生是可以设计的，生涯是可以规划的，幸福是可以准备的。现在就可以开始。
在你穷的时候，要少在家里，多在外面。在你富有的时候，要多在家里，少在外面。这就是生活的艺术。
穷得时候，钱要花给别人，富的时候，钱要花给自己。很多人，都做颠倒了。
穷得时候，不要计较，对别人要好。富的时候，要学会让别人对自己好。自己对自己更好。
穷要把自己贡献出去，尽量让别人利用。富，要把自己收藏好，小心别让别人随便利用。
这些奇妙的生活方式，是很少人能够明白的。
穷的时候，花钱给别人看。富的时候，花钱给自己享受。穷的时候一定要大方，富的时候，就不要摆阔了。
生命已经恢复了简单，已经回到了宁静。 年轻不是过错，贫穷无需害怕。
懂得培养自己，懂得什么是贵重物品，懂得该投资什么，懂得该在哪里节约，这是整个过程的关键。
别乱买衣服，少买一点，但是可以买几件很有品味的。
少在外面吃饭，要吃就请客，要请，就请比自己更有梦想的、更有思想、更努力的人。
一旦生活需要的钱已经够了，最大的花费，就是用你的收入，完成你的梦想，去放开你的翅膀大胆地做梦，去让生命经历不一样的旅程。
Tuesday, February 22, 2011
Sunday, February 20, 2011
跟乳癌說 Bye Bye 的水果
跟乳癌說 Bye Bye 的水果 ,別忘了告訴你的女性朋友。
我們都聽過乳癌，但不知如何預防 ? 現在有小小秘方
乳癌，它一直都是女性朋友的隱憂，想想萬一要把最能讓人注目的部位切除掉，
那是多麼難過的事啊！不過你知道嗎？有個水果可是可以讓你跟乳癌說 ByeBye ?
加拿大氰化物大學研究人員發現，蕃茄汁內所含的蕃茄紅素具有防止乳癌的
效果，特別是像蕃茄醬、蕃茄汁或是蕃茄湯等經過加工的蕃茄食品的蕃茄紅素
特別容易為人體吸收，對降低罹患乳癌的效果比直接生吃蕃茄還要好。
如果達到預防效果每天須吸收五毫克的蕃茄紅素 。
英國『衛報』報導，前此有研究顯示食用蕃茄可以減少男人罹患攝護腺癌和心臟病
機率，而這項由一家蕃茄醬公司贊助的研究則發現，蕃茄、西瓜與紅葡萄呈現紅色
的蕃茄 紅素可以預防乳癌、子宮頸癌、前列腺癌、結腸癌與心臟病，其中又以預防
乳癌的效 果特 別顯著。而且也應吃足量的新鮮蔬果以維健康
去脂食物
(1) 凍豆腐
根據報導指出，凍豆腐能吸收胃腸道以及全身組織的脂肪，有利脂肪的排泄。
(2) 鳳梨
鳳梨有蛋白質分解酵素，具有分解魚、肉的功能，吃過大餐後可以吃它。
但是吃涼的東西會不舒服的人，儘量少吃 它。
(3) 陳皮
漢方的陳皮，對脾、肺很好，可以幫助消化、排除胃部的氣、減少腹部脂肪
的堆 積。 但是 有心臟、血管毛病的人最好少吃！
(4) 薏仁
味道微甜的薏仁除了美白治痘，對水腫型的肥胖也很有幫助。 但是孕婦禁止吃哦！
(5) 烏賊
烏賊的脂肪含量，每100g 才有0.7g ，是很不容易害妳變胖的食物。
(6) 木瓜
木瓜有輕微的興奮作用。本草綱目說，木瓜可以去水腫、治腳氣病。
關節不好的人，也可以吃木瓜改善哦！
(7) 綠豆芽
含有較高的磷、鐵之外，主要含有大量的水份，多吃綠豆芽，也不易形成脂肪在皮下。
Thursday, February 10, 2011
外面长什么，里面就有什么病 @@
1. 额头长痘
原因：压力大，脾气差，造成心火和血液循环有问题。
改善：早睡早起，多喝水。
2.双眉间长痘：
原因：胸闷，心律不整，心悸。
改善：不要做太过激烈的运动，避免烟、酒、辛辣食品。
3.鼻头长痘：
原因：胃火过盛，消化系统异常。
改善：少吃冰冷食物。
4.鼻翼长痘：
原因：与卵巢机能或生殖系统有关。
改善：不要过度纵欲或禁欲，多到户外呼吸新鲜空气。
5.右边脸颊长痘：
原因：肺功能失常。
改善：注意保养呼吸道，尽量避免芒果、芋头、海鲜等易过敏的食物。
6.左边脸颊长痘：
原因：肝功能不顺畅，有热毒。
改善：作息正常，保持心情愉快，该吹冷空气就吹，不要让身体处在闷热的环境中
7.唇周边长痘：
原因：便秘导致体内毒素累积，或是使用含氟过量的牙膏。
改善：多吃高纤维的蔬菜水果
8.下巴长痘：
原因：内分泌失调。
改善：少吃冰冷的东西。
9 .太阳穴：
祛痘的15个良好习惯
1、每天八杯水。清早没有进食前一定要喝一大杯水，可以清肠胃。（相信很多美眉们是知道的,问题是做不做得到。）
2、每天一便。坚持养好良好习惯，排毒，必要时可吃香蕉调理一下。
3、切忌熬夜。熬夜是美肌的最大天敌。
4、洗面的时候，要彻底洗净，不要有残留的化妆品
5、少玩电脑，手机不可以开机放床头，有辐射，对皮肤影响厉害。
6、不可以用手挤痘痘，任其自己脱落，这样不易留痕。
7、床套，枕头巾要定期清洗，否则会有很多螨虫滋生，睡觉的时候很易感染。
8、最好在十一点前睡觉。睡前不要吃宵夜。
9、上火的东西尽量少吃。
10、护肤品不要乱用，最好用一系列的产品，要了解自己是属于什么样的肤质。
11、珍珠粉沟蜂蜜做面膜，可以去痘去印。
12、白砂糖洗面：可以去印，而且面部会比以前更光滑，洗完脸后用砂糖洗洗，效果好好。
13、用维生素E涂痘印，坚持涂痘，印子会逐渐变淡。
14、多喝些花茶，可以美容皮肤。
15、有痘的人睡觉一定要把流海给夹起来。这样不易造成前额生疮，也不会令生疮．
去除痤疮疤痕
把姜切片，临睡前用手指压在疤痕处15分钟，第二天早上再洗掉，连续一周，你会发现这个方法对付痤疮疤痕非常有效。
神奇指数：★★★☆有效指数：★★★★
去脸部角质
在脸上撒少许白砂糖，然后用半个柠檬轻轻摩擦皮肤，可以去死皮和减轻阳光灼晒斑痕。
神奇指数：★★☆有效指数：★★★☆
自制紧肤水
柠檬汁加一点黄瓜汁就可以制成天然的紧肤水了，但一定要注意保质期限哦。
神奇指数：★★★☆有效指数：★★★
增长睫毛
将喝剩的茶水晾凉，在睡前或隔天清晨，利用棉花棒沾湿眼睫毛，可达到增长睫毛的功效。赶快试试吧，保证是最廉价又经济的睫毛增长液！
神奇指数：★★★★有效指数：★★★★☆
去身体角质
手肘、膝盖、后脚跟部分用滑石轻轻磨去变老变黑的角质，严重时可涂上凡士林，用绷带覆盖一晚上。
神奇指数：★★有效指数：★★★☆
乌青不见了
跌倒乌青一大块又难看又丢脸怎么办？把鸡蛋煮熟，剥壳后在乌青上滚一滚，很快它就消失了,但是蛋就不能吃了。
神奇指数：★★★★★有效指数：★★★★★
消除黑眼圈
准备冷水、鲜奶和纸巾，先将冷水及鲜奶以1:1的比例混合，再用纸巾沾湿，贴在眼睛的下半部15分钟，就可以消除恼人的黑眼圈了。
神奇指数：★★有效指数：★★★☆
去黑鼻头
把生鸡蛋靠近蛋皮的那层薄膜整张撕下来，贴在鼻头上。等干透之后揭下来，你会发现“草莓"上的小黑点全都不见了！
神奇指数：★★★★☆有效指数：★★★★☆
Wednesday, January 12, 2011
Holiday ends SOON T.T
WowowWow....its been so long I didn't came here...the last time was..last year?..hoho
Very lazy to update my blog
I feel that i'm getting lazy and lazier..
Before my holiday started, I planned to do a lot of things..
but what happened was in my to-do list, I don't think I've cancel even one of them..
and I have even forgotten where the hell that list is...LOL -.-
Anyway, my 1 month holiday passes so fast, and now just left only a few more days for me to relax.
So sad...I really can't accept the day back to Kampar is going to arrive soon...
I just don't wanna go back there!
I've been repeating this for so many semester,
but this will be the last time for me to say this...HAHA
cause...this will be the last semester for me and I'm going to graduate soon!!!! (hopefully)
So, after May, i'm gonna say bye bye to kampar and Utar forever!!
Okie, what have I done in this 1 month holiday?
1 month seems long, but 1 month holiday isn't long indeed!
but I want to graduate soon ,so, thats fine!
There are ppl asking me, do u enjoy ur holiday?
Ya ofcz I enjoy a lot! even thou I didn't go travel,
even thou just spend my time in Penang and didn't go to many places
or even thou I spent my day just at home, I will enjoy it to the maximum.
Cause, I don't have any stress at this moment.
After Christmas, I've met some old friends by the way
Yan Ling, she just came back from Australia
So surprised she called me out for a gathering with our lovely old friends
Glad to see them again and we took some photos..
We had our gathering at one seafood restaurant which I couldn't remember the name..
Us after the dinner outside the restaurant
Another dating was on 30th December 2010,
we went to Autocity, but too bad only few of us..
Others couldn't make it...
We dined in Winter Warmers
That time Pacific was doing Clearance Sales, so that place is crowded with lots of people
One of our friend Zhor Wei worked there too..
We went to find him and he join us dinner...=)
After that we went bowling in Sunshine Square in the middle of the night...
On New Year eve 31st December 2010, as usual, Edmund organized a BBQ party.
Only a few friends could attend the party cz all of them were so busy.
So I called some of my friends too, luckily few of them give me face and appeared.
Boon Wei and You Yi came too even thou they were sicked!! *touch*
Too bad the photo wasn't with me so I couldn't upload here..
I joined Hooi Ting, Lye Eng, Sen Yong and Ah Fai to redbox
Is been long time I didn't join them singing together..
Recalling back those days when I was in College,
we used to hang out together and Redbox is our ordinary place..
I wonder whether 2011 is a bad year for me?
A few days after new year,
I was sick!!! Very sick!!
Maybe is the consequences of eating too much BBQ food?
I got diarrhea, fever, headache, body ache, flu, cough..coming one after another some even at the same time..
how suffer I was during that entire week!!
I couldn't even eat or get up from bed, whole day just lying on the bed until my whole body so pain...hahaha
But everything happen with good purpose (someone told me about this...lol)
I'm so lucky there is someone who loves me take care of me when I was sick.
No matter how tired he was after his work, he came to my house and take care of me,
when I'm fever in the middle of the night, he woke up and change the wet towel for me..
he even fetch me out to have some fresh air so that I don't stay in the house all the day
and fetch me to clinic although in the end didn't see any doctor because most of the clinic has closed.-.-
Thanks a lot Edmund, from the bottom of my heart.
Even my mum also never bother me that much when I fall sick T.T
Luckily I could still able to recover before Edmund's company annual dinner on 8th January 2011.
Actually not fully recover yet, but I just don't want miss a chance to join him to this event.
It was held at Golden Sand Hotel..
We arrived there early in the afternoon cz he is one of the committee for the team building session
So surprised I met my old friend there, Huey Fang, she is also one of the colleague's girlfriend.
I enjoy playing the game a lot, and I was so lucky cz my team has won the champion..
and I got RM100 sunshine voucher for that...so happy..haha XD
Edmund's team got the 1st runner up, so he got RM50 voucher...not bad also..
The dinner was great too, too bad I couldn't eat much because I just recovered...wasted la..
the lucky draw session was so excited...too bad I'm not one of the staff, only can watch...hahha
After the dinner we went to one of the club in Upper Penang Road
They are so crazy and so enjoy...drink a lot too...
I also can't resist to drink some..cz I was so thirsty and the liquor taste so nice...=P
Went to my mum's kindergarden to help her out to decorate her classroom
Miss the kids so much, they were so cute but so noisy
the moment I stepped into the classroom, the noise never stopped until the classroom is empty
Some of them very naughty, but some are so lovely!
I love kids, but I just don't know how to handle them
Thats why I will never consider to be a kindergarden teacher because I can't shout so loud like my mum
my voice is very precious 1...cannot simply spoil it..hahaha
Went out with Shirleen too..
the first date wasn't that well cause I went back halfway after started to feel sick
so we date for the 2nd time- shopping, bowling and pasar malam-ing...haha!
bought a lot of things and I'm gonna bankrupt soon!
So, these is mainly what I've done in this holiday..
still got some activities but I forgot d...just didn't appear in my mind..
OH YA!!! Finally I got my result! So DISAPPOINTING!!!
I really thought I could get better result, cause I answered quite well!
but how come the result is not what I expected? haihzzz...sad
anyway, thanks god I passed la...although I'm not satisfied with it..
I've worked so hard on this semester, but the result so so only...
not motivated to work so hard anymore...
but this coming semester will be the last semester, if fail I can't graduate..
so still have to work even harder!
Seems that I need more luck other than effort,
so...wish me luck la..thank you =D
Very lazy to update my blog
I feel that i'm getting lazy and lazier..
Before my holiday started, I planned to do a lot of things..
but what happened was in my to-do list, I don't think I've cancel even one of them..
and I have even forgotten where the hell that list is...LOL -.-
Anyway, my 1 month holiday passes so fast, and now just left only a few more days for me to relax.
So sad...I really can't accept the day back to Kampar is going to arrive soon...
I just don't wanna go back there!
I've been repeating this for so many semester,
but this will be the last time for me to say this...HAHA
cause...this will be the last semester for me and I'm going to graduate soon!!!! (hopefully)
So, after May, i'm gonna say bye bye to kampar and Utar forever!!
Okie, what have I done in this 1 month holiday?
1 month seems long, but 1 month holiday isn't long indeed!
but I want to graduate soon ,so, thats fine!
There are ppl asking me, do u enjoy ur holiday?
Ya ofcz I enjoy a lot! even thou I didn't go travel,
even thou just spend my time in Penang and didn't go to many places
or even thou I spent my day just at home, I will enjoy it to the maximum.
Cause, I don't have any stress at this moment.
After Christmas, I've met some old friends by the way
Yan Ling, she just came back from Australia
So surprised she called me out for a gathering with our lovely old friends
Glad to see them again and we took some photos..
We had our gathering at one seafood restaurant which I couldn't remember the name..
Us after the dinner outside the restaurant
Another dating was on 30th December 2010,
we went to Autocity, but too bad only few of us..
Others couldn't make it...
We dined in Winter Warmers
That time Pacific was doing Clearance Sales, so that place is crowded with lots of people
One of our friend Zhor Wei worked there too..
We went to find him and he join us dinner...=)
After that we went bowling in Sunshine Square in the middle of the night...
On New Year eve 31st December 2010, as usual, Edmund organized a BBQ party.
Only a few friends could attend the party cz all of them were so busy.
So I called some of my friends too, luckily few of them give me face and appeared.
Boon Wei and You Yi came too even thou they were sicked!! *touch*
Too bad the photo wasn't with me so I couldn't upload here..
I joined Hooi Ting, Lye Eng, Sen Yong and Ah Fai to redbox
Is been long time I didn't join them singing together..
Recalling back those days when I was in College,
we used to hang out together and Redbox is our ordinary place..
I wonder whether 2011 is a bad year for me?
A few days after new year,
I was sick!!! Very sick!!
Maybe is the consequences of eating too much BBQ food?
I got diarrhea, fever, headache, body ache, flu, cough..coming one after another some even at the same time..
how suffer I was during that entire week!!
I couldn't even eat or get up from bed, whole day just lying on the bed until my whole body so pain...hahaha
But everything happen with good purpose (someone told me about this...lol)
I'm so lucky there is someone who loves me take care of me when I was sick.
No matter how tired he was after his work, he came to my house and take care of me,
when I'm fever in the middle of the night, he woke up and change the wet towel for me..
he even fetch me out to have some fresh air so that I don't stay in the house all the day
and fetch me to clinic although in the end didn't see any doctor because most of the clinic has closed.-.-
Thanks a lot Edmund, from the bottom of my heart.
Even my mum also never bother me that much when I fall sick T.T
Luckily I could still able to recover before Edmund's company annual dinner on 8th January 2011.
Actually not fully recover yet, but I just don't want miss a chance to join him to this event.
It was held at Golden Sand Hotel..
We arrived there early in the afternoon cz he is one of the committee for the team building session
So surprised I met my old friend there, Huey Fang, she is also one of the colleague's girlfriend.
I enjoy playing the game a lot, and I was so lucky cz my team has won the champion..
and I got RM100 sunshine voucher for that...so happy..haha XD
Edmund's team got the 1st runner up, so he got RM50 voucher...not bad also..
The dinner was great too, too bad I couldn't eat much because I just recovered...wasted la..
the lucky draw session was so excited...too bad I'm not one of the staff, only can watch...hahha
After the dinner we went to one of the club in Upper Penang Road
They are so crazy and so enjoy...drink a lot too...
I also can't resist to drink some..cz I was so thirsty and the liquor taste so nice...=P
Went to my mum's kindergarden to help her out to decorate her classroom
Miss the kids so much, they were so cute but so noisy
the moment I stepped into the classroom, the noise never stopped until the classroom is empty
Some of them very naughty, but some are so lovely!
I love kids, but I just don't know how to handle them
Thats why I will never consider to be a kindergarden teacher because I can't shout so loud like my mum
my voice is very precious 1...cannot simply spoil it..hahaha
Went out with Shirleen too..
the first date wasn't that well cause I went back halfway after started to feel sick
so we date for the 2nd time- shopping, bowling and pasar malam-ing...haha!
bought a lot of things and I'm gonna bankrupt soon!
So, these is mainly what I've done in this holiday..
still got some activities but I forgot d...just didn't appear in my mind..
OH YA!!! Finally I got my result! So DISAPPOINTING!!!
I really thought I could get better result, cause I answered quite well!
but how come the result is not what I expected? haihzzz...sad
anyway, thanks god I passed la...although I'm not satisfied with it..
I've worked so hard on this semester, but the result so so only...
not motivated to work so hard anymore...
but this coming semester will be the last semester, if fail I can't graduate..
so still have to work even harder!
Seems that I need more luck other than effort,
so...wish me luck la..thank you =D
Friday, December 24, 2010
Merry Christmas
Christmas eve...
nothing much to do..spent my day at home playing computer games
Sims 3...nice game..but will get bored after playing a while
supposedly there are many programmes tonight
but don't know why last minute all has cancelled..fine-.-
waiting for Edmund to finish work and thought we can go somewhere for dinner
finally 10pm he finished his work n bring me to his boss's place bbq...
after BBQ went to a pub in D-Piaza with his boss..
we drink n watch the live band singing
there was a game session n we won 4 bottles of beer..=D
Christmas day
nothing to do as well..
Edmund have to go back to work until evening
thought can go out with mum but she is also busy
why everyone is so busy while i'm so free during christmas??
hope to go out..but can't find anyone out
and also no $$$ d...haizzz
I pity Edmund have to work on Christmas, not only Christmas, these coming few days also have to go back to office working.
I also pity myself..hahahaha..
Now planning for tonight's dinner..
where to dine? hmm...thinking...wondering...
hope I will have a wonderful and memorable Christmas night...
at least, for a few hours...=)
MERRY CHRISTMAS!!
nothing much to do..spent my day at home playing computer games
Sims 3...nice game..but will get bored after playing a while
supposedly there are many programmes tonight
but don't know why last minute all has cancelled..fine-.-
waiting for Edmund to finish work and thought we can go somewhere for dinner
finally 10pm he finished his work n bring me to his boss's place bbq...
after BBQ went to a pub in D-Piaza with his boss..
we drink n watch the live band singing
there was a game session n we won 4 bottles of beer..=D
Christmas day
nothing to do as well..
Edmund have to go back to work until evening
thought can go out with mum but she is also busy
why everyone is so busy while i'm so free during christmas??
hope to go out..but can't find anyone out
and also no $$$ d...haizzz
I pity Edmund have to work on Christmas, not only Christmas, these coming few days also have to go back to office working.
I also pity myself..hahahaha..
Now planning for tonight's dinner..
where to dine? hmm...thinking...wondering...
hope I will have a wonderful and memorable Christmas night...
at least, for a few hours...=)
MERRY CHRISTMAS!!
Wednesday, November 24, 2010
白羊老公 VS 天秤老婆
白羊老公——进取执着的导热飞弹
用「春蚕到死丝方尽」来形容白羊老公，是再恰当也不过了！他们对于理想的执着，对目标的狂热，正如追着飞机不放的导热飞弹，不达目的，决不干休。
＜诊断＞ 很多人以为白羊老公必定火气旺盛，脾气暴躁，其实很多白羊老公温柔体贴又浪漫。他们的火气藏在对事业的追求上，在事业方面，他们自我期许很高，目标不断挪后，永远在追求卓越，忙着超越自己。 白羊老公具有开创性，一辈子向自己挑战，是他们最大的理想。在这个层面，他们是永远的大男人主义，不容许自己失败，也不愿意别人帮忙或同情。
＜治疗＞ 白羊老公热情慷慨，面对困难，喜欢扮演「一夫当关，万夫莫敌」的角色。老婆插手，效果不大，你难以抵抗他那种百分之百的自信和勇气。不如做个支持者，顺便 帮他看紧荷包。白羊座的最大弱点，就是对金钱的流失反应迟钝。白羊老公喜欢往前看，就像导热飞弹一般，只盯着目标前进，因此粗心也是一个大毛病。如果他忘 了妳的生日也别太伤心，想想他以前追妳的热情模样，他只不过是把重心转移到事业上罢了！何不去买点礼物犒赏自己呢？他一定不会介意飞涨的信用卡账单的。
＜叮咛＞ 双鱼、天蝎、巨蟹老婆：请包容他事业至上的人生观。 金牛、处女、摩羯老婆：请妳动作快一点，才能配合他的节奏。白羊、狮子、射手老婆：请盯紧你的账户，小心入不敷出。 双子、天秤、水瓶老婆：请妳容忍他的大男人主义！
天秤老婆——不要让她孤单
在朋友之间备受欢迎的天秤老婆，在家里似乎很容易生气。为了一点小事耿耿于怀，情绪总是随风摆动。什么事让她们失去风度，变得这么神经质呢？
＜诊断＞ 天秤座是个不容易生气的星座，天秤老婆却跌破所有人的眼镜，这是受到社会环境的影响：女人要和老公的老板、同事、部属、亲人、朋友，共同分享这个亲密伴 侣。追求公平，又渴望有伴的天秤老婆，总觉得自己只分到十分之一的老公，而不是符合「另一半」称谓的二分之一，当然心里很不平衡。
＜治疗＞ 天秤老婆有一个轻松自在的人生观，其实却很黏人，非常怕孤单。如果你是个忙碌的先生，没有时间陪太太花前月下，请不要忘记找一些事情，让她保持忙碌。一个孤单的天秤老婆，会失去金星（守护星）的美丽丰采，变成一吨炸药。
＜叮咛＞ 金牛、处女、摩羯老公：天秤老婆重精神甚于物质，别老是以工作为借口，她们要人不要钱。 巨蟹、天蝎、双鱼老公：善解人意可别变？釆G叨，天秤老婆爱同伴也爱自由，别黏得太紧。 白羊、狮!子、射手老公：请保持优雅风度，天秤座一点也瞧不起随便脸红脖子粗的人。 双子、天秤、水瓶老公：除了一颗聪明的头脑之外，也不要忘记对自己的仪容下点工夫，天秤老婆喜欢漂亮的另一半！
Friday, November 19, 2010
矛盾
有没有试过。。
在幸福的同时，感到有些焦虑
在开心的时候，感到有些忧郁
在热闹人群中，却感到有些孤单
在甜蜜的时候，感到有些不安
在忙碌的同时，却觉得有点空虚
为什么这些种种矛盾的感觉会出现在我生活当中？
我总觉得生活上好像少了点什么。。
是缺了自信吗？还是太过感性？
还是一些其他外在因素让我有这种感觉？
我想三个都是吧。。
每当我觉得很快乐的时候
总是会遇到一些事情，
哪怕只是一点小事
甚至是不重要的事
都会影响了我的心情
每当我觉得幸福的时候
总会感到我的幸福将会被夺走
或者自己无法抓住自己拥有的幸福
甚至有时会觉得是辛苦换来的幸福
每当我觉得甜蜜的时候，
我会疑惑，这是不是真的。。
会不会在你安心后给你一个惊险
当一个人太过于投入某些事
就会变得很在意，很执着，很认真
有时真的会很累。。
不过只要得到那一瞬间真实的快乐
所有事情都是值得的
也许。。矛盾的感觉永远都无法消失
惟有直到自己真确的被认同与珍惜
我想这已经是到了另一个境界了吧
我什么时候才能跨过这个境界呢
在幸福的同时，感到有些焦虑
在开心的时候，感到有些忧郁
在热闹人群中，却感到有些孤单
在甜蜜的时候，感到有些不安
在忙碌的同时，却觉得有点空虚
为什么这些种种矛盾的感觉会出现在我生活当中？
我总觉得生活上好像少了点什么。。
是缺了自信吗？还是太过感性？
还是一些其他外在因素让我有这种感觉？
我想三个都是吧。。
每当我觉得很快乐的时候
总是会遇到一些事情，
哪怕只是一点小事
甚至是不重要的事
都会影响了我的心情
每当我觉得幸福的时候
总会感到我的幸福将会被夺走
或者自己无法抓住自己拥有的幸福
甚至有时会觉得是辛苦换来的幸福
每当我觉得甜蜜的时候，
我会疑惑，这是不是真的。。
会不会在你安心后给你一个惊险
当一个人太过于投入某些事
就会变得很在意，很执着，很认真
有时真的会很累。。
不过只要得到那一瞬间真实的快乐
所有事情都是值得的
也许。。矛盾的感觉永远都无法消失
惟有直到自己真确的被认同与珍惜
我想这已经是到了另一个境界了吧
我什么时候才能跨过这个境界呢
Tuesday, November 16, 2010
祝我身体健康
最近我的健康状况真的很差
病痛连连，肚子痛，腰痛，头痛。。一个一个接着来
昨天醒来时有比较好了
可是晚上头痛到不行。。
真的很害怕我的身体会不会有什么差错
虽然每个月女人病都会觉得痛
但是我从来都没有试过那么痛的
已经连续几晚都无法睡好
痛醒了不懂几次，
也不懂掉了多少的泪水
我哭，之所以我害怕
我掉眼泪，是因为我感到很无助
我很想打给妈妈，可是我不要她担心
我很想找他诉苦，可是我不要打扰他休息
我更不想麻烦朋友带我去看医生
更何况半夜这里所有的诊所已经打烊了
我只好忍受着痛苦，擦干眼泪，躲在被窝里逼着自己入睡
在我最脆弱时，多么希望有一个人在身边照顾着我
至少陪着我跟我聊聊分散注意力，也许没有那么辛苦吧
希望所有疼痛都可以消失掉。。好让我的健康可以快点恢复正常
病痛连连，肚子痛，腰痛，头痛。。一个一个接着来
昨天醒来时有比较好了
可是晚上头痛到不行。。
真的很害怕我的身体会不会有什么差错
虽然每个月女人病都会觉得痛
但是我从来都没有试过那么痛的
已经连续几晚都无法睡好
痛醒了不懂几次，
也不懂掉了多少的泪水
我哭，之所以我害怕
我掉眼泪，是因为我感到很无助
我很想打给妈妈，可是我不要她担心
我很想找他诉苦，可是我不要打扰他休息
我更不想麻烦朋友带我去看医生
更何况半夜这里所有的诊所已经打烊了
我只好忍受着痛苦，擦干眼泪，躲在被窝里逼着自己入睡
在我最脆弱时，多么希望有一个人在身边照顾着我
至少陪着我跟我聊聊分散注意力，也许没有那么辛苦吧
希望所有疼痛都可以消失掉。。好让我的健康可以快点恢复正常
Sunday, November 14, 2010
Pain!!!
I'm suffering for 2 days already
and the pain is getting worse..
not only menstrual pain...
I have no idea why my waist is so painful
I can't really walk straight and even sleep well through the night
The feeling of waken by the pain is so terrible-.-
When can this suffering be over?
HaizZ...no matter how loudly I shout or how long I cry
I'm still alone here and nobody can help me..
HELPLESS... T.T
Saturday, November 13, 2010
November
Last weekend went to Genting Highlands with Edmund and his family
First time join his big family for a short trip..
and this is also my first time at Genting not playing in the theme park but spending most of the time in casino
at first we were quite worried about no place to go and nothing to do there
but surprisingly the time in casino fly so fast
we didn't even realized we had spent in there for the whole night..=S
I do a member card and collected some points
but too bad we didn't claim it for the meals..nvm la..save it for next time..hehe
The weather in Genting was so freezing cool..
I could still remember the moment when i stepped out from the bus, I was shivering like hell
could hardly breath and i feel my lungs are so painful..=S
bought some souveniers for my friends
and perfumes for Edmund and myself..hehee
I bought it but i seldom wear it..i just like the scent =)
unfortunately we didn't take any photo there before we left..-.-
Saturday afternoon went to Seoul Garden eat buffet with Edmund
I was so hunger for bbq buffet...don't know why
too long didn't eat d gua,..I wanted to eat so much since the last sem break but don't get the chance to eat
so this time I went back I MUST go eat and my wish has finally fulfilled =D
Friday nite watch movie with Edmund's gang, right after i came back frm Kampar
we were so rushed and almost late so CK directly fetch me there and meet up with them.
We watch The Other Guy...the movie...okok only...
quite dissapointed cz The Rock so fast gone d-.-
and I was so tired that night so I don't really enjoy the movie..
hmm...my post today seems so disorganized...reversing..lol
but anyway..I just finish my MUET exam today...relieved!
the exam was really tiring! 8am to 12.30pm
and I sat for the exam with a bad condition-stomach ache!-.-
Anyhow, hope i can pass for the exam la..
Goin to start work hard for final exam...
aiyo...but lazy larrrr...=(
First time join his big family for a short trip..
and this is also my first time at Genting not playing in the theme park but spending most of the time in casino
at first we were quite worried about no place to go and nothing to do there
but surprisingly the time in casino fly so fast
we didn't even realized we had spent in there for the whole night..=S
I do a member card and collected some points
but too bad we didn't claim it for the meals..nvm la..save it for next time..hehe
The weather in Genting was so freezing cool..
I could still remember the moment when i stepped out from the bus, I was shivering like hell
could hardly breath and i feel my lungs are so painful..=S
bought some souveniers for my friends
and perfumes for Edmund and myself..hehee
I bought it but i seldom wear it..i just like the scent =)
unfortunately we didn't take any photo there before we left..-.-
Saturday afternoon went to Seoul Garden eat buffet with Edmund
I was so hunger for bbq buffet...don't know why
too long didn't eat d gua,..I wanted to eat so much since the last sem break but don't get the chance to eat
so this time I went back I MUST go eat and my wish has finally fulfilled =D
Friday nite watch movie with Edmund's gang, right after i came back frm Kampar
we were so rushed and almost late so CK directly fetch me there and meet up with them.
We watch The Other Guy...the movie...okok only...
quite dissapointed cz The Rock so fast gone d-.-
and I was so tired that night so I don't really enjoy the movie..
hmm...my post today seems so disorganized...reversing..lol
but anyway..I just finish my MUET exam today...relieved!
the exam was really tiring! 8am to 12.30pm
and I sat for the exam with a bad condition-stomach ache!-.-
Anyhow, hope i can pass for the exam la..
Goin to start work hard for final exam...
aiyo...but lazy larrrr...=(
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